Tuesday, October 26, 2024

To everything - turn, turn, turn

Lately many the Facebook updates I’ve been seeing are all about announcements of new attachments, engagements, weddings, pregnancies and births. Facebook is just buzzing with excitement and joy… the atmosphere on the news feed page is just electrifying.

It excites me to think of the beautiful tapestry of life being weaved around us… some of the attachments/proposals/engagements/weddings mean new family connections being formed between old friends or the addition of new friends to the network; beautiful photos of cute new babies mean the creation of brand new never before seen colours and patterns added to this dazzling tapestry of friends and family.

The landscape around us is changing, shifting and evolving. We are ALL shifting into a whole new dimension in life… finding our ‘new cheese’… embracing the new normal… or however you want to call it.

The seasons are changing. Summer is approaching (on my side of the hemisphere). So it is with the seasons of life as the circle of life goes on and on…

To everything - turn, turn, turn
There is a season - turn, turn, turn
And a time for every purpose under heaven

Lyrics of this song adapted from the book of Ecclesiastes Chapter 3

Wednesday, October 13, 2024

Midweek creature feature

My kiut kuddly kreetur kamping on ze karpet...

If you're wondering what he's trying to do, he's not trying to pounce or jump or play or anything. He's just lying there motionless like a snake. Attempts to coax him and tease him were only met with this blank stare.

Sunday, October 10, 2024

Baby movements

Today is one of those gloomy, rainy days, with the wind howling outside and when the best feeling is being able to cozy up on the couch at home with a hot drink and a book. Except that I'm not reading a book right now.

Apart from TV, books, magazines, blogs and Facebook, one of my favourite forms of entertainment is sitting on a couch with my belly exposed, watching it move and wriggle. It's a surreal form of entertainment, and I'm hardly thinking about the fact that it's MY belly. I'm just completely absorbed in waiting and watching for the next twitch and jiggle.

Hubby finds it entertaining to watch me entertaining myself this way. But sometimes he's also sitting next to me, exclaiming excitedly along with me every time we see or feel another pop.

There are actually different variations of movements. I was curious to know what on earth the little man inside was up to each time he came up with something new. I came across this article which outlines the different types of fetal movements.

The common ones I feel are:
  • Rolling and sliding - This feels like a wriggly, squirmy movement and is apparently him rolling around to a different position. Sometimes if I happen to be watching, I can literally see a tiny protrusion on my belly sliding across from one side to another. These are the movements that are most fun to watch.
  • Kicking and punching - This is one of the more common terms used... i.e. "is the baby kicking?". As per the term, it's simply a sharp jerk felt inside. I usually picture the little man stretching and kicking against my belly with his feet or punching me with his hands. It doesn't feel painful at all at this stage, but I've heard that it can be as he gets bigger and stronger in the final weeks.
  • Vibrations or spasms - This is the movement I feel the most often several times each day. Apparently it's meant to be hiccups. Yes, apparently they start doing that even from inside. Sometimes I feel just two or three spasms and then it stops, and sometimes the spasms are more rhythmic and go on at intervals every few seconds for a minute or two.
I'm now well over three quarters of the way through my pregnancy at 29 weeks. Sometimes it crosses my mind that I might miss this feeling having my baby so close right inside me all the time... with none of the crying and fussing which is bound to happen when he gets out. But I guess it's just a whole different dimension we'll be talking about by then. In the meantime, I'll just simply enjoy the here and now.

Sunday, October 03, 2024

Deciding where to set up the cot

More baby shopping this weekend.

This weekend’s task centred around assembling this…

Hubby’s comment as he assembled the cot: “It’s really dawning on me that we’re having a baby!

So for me it took sorting through baby clothes, and for hubs it took assembling baby furniture and equipment.

We are kind of still debating whether to set the cot up in our room, or establish a separate nursery room. We’ve been hearing pros and cons of both options from various people:

Those voting for having the cot in the same room insist on the benefits of easy access to baby and convenience, especially for night feeds. Those on the other side of the fence are adamant that it’s better to establish a separate nursery from the start to avoid the difficulties and drama of transitioning to a nursery later on.

Both sides of the argument seem valid, but we’re still working out which option is for us.